IQ(intelligence quotientIQ)和EQ(emotion quotient 情商)这两个词大伙伙肯定很熟悉吧?大家通常用IQ和情商来评测一个人的聪明程度和敏锐度。不过,在这两种“商”以外,还有一种“商”:SQ(social quotient)。在美国,SQ是考核一个人是不是拥有社交能力的要紧原因,今天大家就来聊聊“SQ”。
Social quotient (SQ), first put forward by US scholar Daniel Goleman, refers to the ability to deal with social relations and follows in the style of the IQ (intelligence quotient) and EQ (emotion quotient) concepts. Goleman believes that interpersonal interaction exerts its great influence on our intelligence and other aspects of our lives.
社交商这个说法是由美国学者丹尼尔?戈尔曼第一提出来的,指的是大家处置人际社交关系的能力,与IQ(IQ)和情商(EQ)的理念相同。戈尔曼觉得人际交往对大家的智商与生活的其它方面都会产生非常大的影响。
Unlike IQ, which seems to be fixed after age five, all of us can work on skills like smiling or a positive attitude, traits commonly found in inpiduals with high social skills. Shy and extroverted people can similarly benefit from such efforts.
IQ通常在5岁将来就基本定型了,但微笑、积极的社交态度等有效的社交技能是可以通过努力得到提升的。无论是害臊的人还是外向的人,都能从如此的练习中有所收成。